Your Cosmic Love Language Based on Your Venus Sign
This placement is your birth chart is all about love ♥️
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Happy Thursday, friends! I hope you’re having a good day so far! And happy Galentine’s and Valentine’s week! With love in the air, I wanted to talk about Venus.
If you didn’t know, your Venus sign is different from your Sun sign (your zodiac sign).
In astrology, Venus is the planet of love, wealth, harmony, and beauty and its placement in the birth chart (your Venus sign) is a great one to look at for what you need in a relationship as it can act as your own cosmic love language.
My sun sign is Scorpio but my Venus sign is Sagittarius and Venus in Sag is my chart ruler too🥰
If you don’t know your Venus sign, you can find it in your birth chart and here’s a little about each Venus sign and their cosmic love language♥️
♈️ Aries Venus – Love Me Like an Adrenaline Rush
An exciting relationship that’s full of surprises? Yes, please. They want someone who keeps up, keeps it real, and never overthinks the “I miss you” text. Their love language? Bold moves — shoot your shot, match their energy, and keep it interesting.
♉️ Taurus Venus – Love Me Like a Luxury
Leisure, loyalty, and love that actually feels good. They’re not here for the chaos — just consistency and cuddles and comfortable date nights. Their love language? Security — good food, romance, deep trust, and knowing you’re all in.
♊️ Gemini Venus – Love Me Like Your Favorite Book
If it’s not stimulating their mind, it’s not worth it. They need someone who can keep the convo going and mix it up. Their love language? Witty banter and new experiences — they want to see you keep up and have some fun too!
♋️ Cancer Venus – Love Me Like I’m Home
They need emotional safety, deep trust, and someone who really gets them. Small acts of love and attention go a long way. Their love language? Heartfelt gestures— make them feel like they’re the center of your world and remind them you’re paying attention.
♌️ Leo Venus – Love Me Out Loud
Bare minimum? Never heard of it. They like grand gestures, admiration, and a love story that looks good on the feed. Their love language? Hype, loyalty, and main character energy — obsessed with them? They love it. And they’ll be obsessed with you too.
♍️ Virgo Venus – Love Me Like a Kept Promise
They’re not falling for pretty words. Show them you care by remembering the little things. Their love language? Show them with action — fix something for them, follow through on plans, book the reservation, and be 100% real.
♎️ Libra Venus – Love Me Like a Rom-Com
The perfect meet-cute? Yes, please. They need romance, thoughtful dates, good convos, and a vibe that feels like a well-curated playlist. Their love language? Charm, balance, and flirting — it’s all about the chemistry and making them feel at ease.
♏️ Scorpio Venus – Love Me Like a Ride-or-Die
Surface-level love? Absolutely not. They need intensity, loyalty, and someone who gets them without explaining. Their love language? Deep trust, unspoken bonds, and low-key obsession — if you’re all in, and have earned their trust, they’ll give you the world.
♐️ Sagittarius Venus – Love Me Like a Boundless Horizon
They’re here for the thrill, the freedom, and the kind of love that never feels like a cage. They need someone who makes life exciting, challenges their mind, and never tries to dim their spark. Their love language? Spontaneity, belly laughs, and honesty — if it’s not fun, it’s not worth it.
♑️ Capricorn Venus – Love Me Like a Contract With No Loopholes
They’re here for stability, consistency, shared long-term goals, and a love that actually works where they both feel supported. Their love language? Knowing their worth — no games, no flakiness, just mutual respect.
♒️ Aquarius Venus – Love Me Like an Indie Film
They don’t do basic. They need weird, witty, and a little unpredictable. Their love language? Late-night convos about the meaning of life, niche memes, and space to be their unique self — yes, you need to get their obscure references.
♓️ Pisces Venus – Love Me Like a Dream Sequence
Romantic AF, but low-key psychic about feelings. They need a connection that feels cosmic. That feels like the universe conspired to get you two together. Their love language? Emotional depth, sweet gestures, and a little magic — love should feel like a soft but surreal escape.
You can find more information about Venus in the birth chart and more astrology things in my book Cosmic Care about astrology, lunar cycles, and birth charts for self-care and empowerment. And you can also book a birth chart reading to learn more!
Sending you so much love and good energy today and always🖤
- Val
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